I was reading through the first few chapters of Proverbs the other day when a word stopped me.

Discretion.

It appears again and again in those opening chapters, right alongside wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, as if it belongs in the same company. This was fascinating to me and as I dug deeper into studying the meaning of the word and context in which it was written, I realized that I had spent very little time ever considering it.

“Discretion will preserve you; understanding will keep you.” — Proverbs 2:11

Preserve you. Keep you. That’s speaking of protection. Discretion, it turns out, isn’t a minor virtue. It’s a guardrail. The more I re-read that passage, the more I understood why I’d needed it in seasons where I didn’t have it.

The Dream Joseph Couldn’t Hold

My mind went to the story of Joseph.

Here was a young man with a genuine God dream, receiving a real word from God about his future. There was nothing false about what he saw. The dream would eventually come to pass exactly as God showed him. However, Joseph took that dream, still fresh and unprocessed, and laid it out in front of his brothers.

“Listen to this dream I had…” — and he told them how their sheaves would bow to his. (Genesis 37:6-7)

The dream was true. The timing of sharing it was not considered and neither was the audience.

Here is a perspective that maybe needs Joseph was his father’s favourite (Genesis 37:3), and that position likely shielded him from the same feedback, correction, and responsibility his brothers carried. He wasn’t out in the fields absorbing the kind of formation that comes from being challenged, tested, and told no. He was given a special coat instead of the ordinary friction that shapes discernment.

Sheltering a child from feedback and correction doesn’t prepare them for the world, it often just delays the very lessons they’ll need. I wonder if some of Joseph’s lack of discretion wasn’t just youthful excitement, but the natural result of never having been given the chance to develop it. Discretion is often formed in the friction of correction. If a son is protected from all of that, he may reach adulthood carrying real revelation without the maturity yet to steward it well.

I’ve wondered how differently things might have unfolded had Joseph held that dream a little closer, exercising better discernment about who was safe to carry it with him. His brothers already resented him, in part because of the very favouritism that had shaped him. They were not people he could process something that sacred with. Some things are true and still not meant to be spoken yet. And some things are true and still not meant to be spoken to certain people, not because the people are enemies in some dramatic sense, but because they simply aren’t safe places for something tender to land.

Notice, too, that this isn’t only a warning to the ones who overshare. It’s also a word to those raising up sons and daughters. Correction and responsibility are not the absence of love, they are part of how discretion gets formed in a person before they ever have something significant to carry.

The Orphan Impulse

That’s where this became personal for me.

I know what it is to be excited about something God is doing. To receive a revelation, or sit under a teaching that unlocks something in you, and feel that surge of I have to tell someone. And honestly, the impulse to share hasn’t always come from a pure place.

Sometimes it came from insecurity.

There’s a version of oversharing that looks like enthusiasm but is actually a bid for acceptance. We’re carrying something new, and underneath the excitement is a more subtle question: will this make me belong? will this earn me a place in the room? So we put the revelation on the table prematurely because we needed the affirmation not because the moment called for it.

I’ve done that. I’ve taken things that were still forming in me, whether teachings, insights, things I felt God was showing me, and shared them too soon, and sometimes with the wrong people. Some of them, I’ve come to believe, were never meant to be shared at all, or at least not with those particular people, in that particular room.

It has cost me, brought strain into relationships and has even left me misunderstood by people I was close to. The very thing I hoped would draw me nearer to people ended up creating distance.

Here’s what I’ve had to face: the impulse to overshare is, at its root, an orphan impulse.

An orphan has to prove he belongs. He has to display what he’s carrying to secure his place and with anyone who will listen. A son doesn’t need to do that. A son already knows he belongs, so he can hold something quietly, discern who it’s safe to process with, and trust that what God is forming in secret doesn’t need an audience to be real.

Discretion and Discernment

This is where discretion and discernment meet.

Discretion asks, is this the right time? Discernment asks, is this the right person?

Both are forms of wisdom, and both require maturity to develop. Not everyone who asks what’s on your heart is a safe place for it. Not everyone in your life has earned the weight of your dream, your vision, your revelation. Some people, however close they may be to you, do not have the capacity or the character, to hold something sacred without mishandling it. That is not always a judgment on their worth as people. It is simply the truth that not every relationship is built for that kind of depth.

Establishing that boundary is not a lack of trust in God. It’s part of stewarding what He’s given you.

What Jesus Modelled

Jesus modelled this too. There were moments when He told people plainly not to broadcast what had happened (Mark 7:36, Mark 8:30). He also didn’t entrust Himself to everyone who believed in Him, because He knew all men (John 2:24-25). He discerned who was safe and who wasn’t. He was not obligated to open Himself to everyone simply because they were present.

Even Mary, when the shepherds came with their astonishing report, kept all these things and pondered them in her heart. (Luke 2:19) She had every reason to talk. Instead she held it. She let it deepen in her before it went anywhere and when it did go somewhere, it was with people who could actually carry the weight of it with her.

What This Asks of Us

So what does this actually ask of us?

It asks us to let things mature before they’re spoken. To notice why we’re about to speak, whether it’s genuine invitation or quiet insecurity dressed up as excitement. And it asks us to be honest about who is actually safe.

“The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil.” — Proverbs 15:28

Studies how to answer. There’s intentional consideration there. A pause. A son who is secure enough to hold his tongue until the right moment and secure enough to choose carefully who he opens his heart to.

This isn’t about becoming guarded, cynical, or isolated. It’s about maturity and trusting that what God is doing in you is real whether or not anyone else knows about it yet, and that protecting it isn’t the same as hiding it. Healthy boundaries are not walls built out of fear. They are wisdom, learned the hard way, about who can be trusted with what is still tender.

Some of the most significant things God plants in us are meant to grow in the dark for a while. There are things that must be cultivated quietly, protected by discretion, guarded by discernment, until they’re rooted deeply enough, and surrounded by the right people, to bear the weight of being seen.

I needed discretion. I needed discernment. I needed the maturity to know that not every true thing needs to be said, not every good thing needs to be said yet, and not every person is safe to say it to.

I’m still learning these things but I am learning them as a son now instead of from fear, but from security.

That completely changes how I carry what He gives me, and who I choose to carry it with.

A Prayer of Activation

There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. — Romans 8:1

Father, I bring You the moments I shared too soon. Whether it was a dream I laid on a table that wasn’t ready to hold it, the sacred things I handed to hands that couldn’t carry them well. I release the shame I’ve attached to those moments, and I release the people I gave it to as well.

I renounce the orphan impulse that told me I had to prove I belonged, that my worth was tied to being known, understood, or affirmed in that moment. I receive instead what has always been true: I am a son. I am a daughter. My place was never earned by what I revealed, and it is not lost by what I revealed too soon.

I ask You to regrow what was exposed before its season. Where exposure has left me feeling small, restore the weight and wonder of what You gave me. Where regret has lingered, turn it into wisdom rather than shame.

Teach me discretion. I want to know Your times and seasons that are always right. Teach me discernment to know the right people. I rest in the security of knowing I belong to You.

What You are forming in me is still real, still Yours, and still growing, whether or not it was ever meant to be seen yet. I trust You with what’s tender in me now. Amen.

The Lord’s Prayer has been recited so many times and I sometimes wonder if we’ve stopped hearing it.

It has become something we say at funerals and the end of services, words we can run through on autopilot while our minds drift somewhere else. It’s almost as if we’ve treated it as a formula, a prayer to memorize and perform.

When you look at the way Jesus presents the prayer, He never gave it to us as a script, He gave it to us as a posture.

When you understand that, you realize this prayer isn’t a religious recitation at all. It’s the antidote to the garden. Line by line, it restores everything the serpent stole, teaching us how to see again.

“In this manner, therefore, pray…” — Matthew 6:9

Not these exact words. In this manner. This posture. This way of seeing. Let me show you what I mean.

“Our Father…”

Everything turns on the first two words.

Before this, God was often approached as Adonai — Lord, Master, a distant and holy force to be feared and appeased. Jesus does something completely counter cultural and opens with Father. Not only Father but He encourages us to make it personal with the phrasing our Father. Intimate. Familial. Belonging.

This is where the orphan spirit comes off of us because you cannot pray, “Our Father” and remain an orphan at the same time. The word itself dismantles entitlement, because entitlement is what orphans live by. Orphans have to secure things for themselves, but sons and daughters, come to a Father who is already pleased with them, who loves them, who is holding everything they need.

The very first words out of Jesus’ mouth in this prayer reverses the very first lie in the garden. You are not on your own. You have a Father.

“Hallowed be Your name…”

Holy is Your name. Set apart. Honoured.

In the garden, the serpent’s whole strategy was to lower God’s name and make Him questionable. Has God really said? Is He really that good? The twisting always begins by chipping away at the Father’s honour.

This line does the opposite. It restores God to His rightful place. It says: You are holy. You are trustworthy. There is no shadow in You. When we give God the place of honour, the suspicion the serpent planted begins to lose its grip.

“Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven…”

This is rank and order being restored. Your governance. Your rule and reign. Not mine.

Remember the heart of the garden lie was I’ll decide for myself what’s good and evil. I want to be my own god. That’s the orphan insisting on their own kingdom. This line surrenders it. Your kingdom, not mine. Your will, not my will or not the will of society, not what someone else says I should want. Yours.

Notice what we’re really asking for: on earth as it is in heaven. God, You have the higher perspective. You see both sides of every issue. You see what I can’t from where I’m standing. So let heaven’s culture permeate my being until I start to see the way You see.

This is the recovery of vision. We lost our sight by trusting our own perception. We get it back by submitting to His.

“Give us this day our daily bread…”

This is provision for sure but it’s also innocence being restored.

Think about the manna in the desert. When it appeared, the people asked, '“what is this?” That’s literally what the word manna means. God fed His children with a question. He made them inquisitive again. Dependent. Childlike.

The orphan can’t live on daily bread. Orphans need to see the whole supply lined up and secured, because they do not trust there’ll be more tomorrow. Sons and daughters receive today’s portion and trust the Father for tomorrow.

This line makes us inquisitive and innocent again. It’s us saying, “I don’t fully know what this is. You tell me. You show me. You frame it up for me and tell me what it means.” All the pride and self-sufficiency and entitlement comes off, because we’re admitting we don’t have it figured out, and we don’t need to. He does.

“And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors…”

Forgive us where we went out of our lane. Where we worried about things that were never ours to carry. Where we stepped into territory we were never meant to occupy.

Then, as we forgive others. This is the soil being kept clean. Unforgiveness, bitterness, and offense, are exactly the things that poison our sight and pull us back into orphan thinking. We can’t see clearly while we’re holding a record of wrongs. Forgiveness keeps the garden free of the weeds that twist our perception.

“And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one…”

When we study this part of the passage out, it means when the test comes, let me pass it.

Here’s the thing about tests, they reveal whether the rest of this prayer has actually taken root. Have I really acknowledged that He is my Father? That He is King? That He’s in control and has a good will I can trust? If I have, then when the test comes, the offense, disappointment, or temptation to grab control again, I’ll pass it. I won’t reach for unforgiveness. I won’t pick up bitterness. I won’t fall back into the orphan’s grasping.

Deliver us from evil is not just referring to wickedness, the word “evil”, in the text carries something specific, it translates as toil. The curse in the garden was toil, endless, striving, sweat-of-the-brow labour. To be delivered from evil is, in part, to be delivered from the toil of trying to earn what’s already been given. To stop striving. To come back to rest.

So look at what this prayer actually does.

The garden gave us an orphan spirit, a corrupted way of seeing, entitlement, suspicion, shame, and toil.

The Lord’s Prayer reverses every piece of it:

Our Father restores sonship.

Hallowed be Your name restores honour and trust.

Your kingdom come restores rightful order.

On earth as in heaven restores vision.

Daily bread restores innocence and dependence.

Forgive us keeps the soil clean.

Deliver us breaks the curse of toil.

This prayer was never a formula to memorize. It’s a posture to live in. When you pray it this way, slowly, as a son or daughter rather than a reciter, something in you begins to change. The pride comes off. The striving quiets. And you begin, once again, to see the kingdom.

You begin to co-cultivate with your Father, the way Adam and Eve were always meant to.

Innocent again. Home again.

Our Father.

The serpent didn’t introduce evil into the garden.

He introduced lack.

We tend to miss this truth when we read Genesis 3. We imagine the temptation was an invitation to do something wicked, but it was something far more subtle. The serpent managed to convince Adam and Eve, who had everything feel like they were missing something. He convinced them that there was a gap between who they were and who they could be. All they had to do is reach out and take.

“For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God.” — Genesis 3:5

Here’s the lie buried in that sentence: you will be like God.

Of course they were already like God. They were made in His image. They walked with Him in the cool of the day. There was nothing to attain. The serpent offered them something they already had and they reached for it anyway.

This is the origin of the orphan mindset, when human beings looked at their Father’s provision and decided it wasn’t enough.

The Son Who Could See

Before the serpent ever showed up, God was teaching Adam how to see.

Watch the pattern in Genesis 2. God brings the animals to Adam, and whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name. (Genesis 2:19) Reading this part of the story quickly can lead us to assume Adam is just labelling things, but it’s far more than that. Adam isn’t only naming but he’s framing. He’s characterizing and participating in how reality is defined. God is doing live training, asking his son the question: what do you see?

This is enormous, because Scripture tells us the worlds themselves were framed by the word of God (Hebrews 11:3). So here is God, teaching His son to do the same thing to speak, name, and frame reality in agreement with the Father’s heart.

Adam was a son being trained to co-create. To see correctly and call things what they truly were.

He was doing this from a place of pure innocence. Adam and Eve were both naked, and were not ashamed. (Genesis 2:25) There was no scandal. No suspicion. No twisted perception. Just a son and daughter creating out of pure trust.

The Serpent’s Weapon

That’s the world the serpent walked into.

Notice what the serpent doesn’t attack with force. He twists.

“Has God indeed said…?” — Genesis 3:1

A small question. A little doubt sown about the Father’s character. Is He really that good? Is He maybe holding something back from you? Are things really as they seem?

This is how perception can become disrupted. This doesn’t happen all at once but through a slow twisting. When we allow any kind of accusation against another person, against God, against ourselves, and we don’t cut it off immediately, it begins to play like a program. It runs, changing what and how we see.

James describes the mechanics exactly: each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin. (James 1:14-15) The twisting starts as a thought, becomes a desire, conceives, and gives birth. And suddenly we are being led by our senses rather than the Holy Spirit. This is the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. We start to operate out of what feels right to us. My decisions, my right to decide for myself what is good and evil.

That is the heart of the lie: I want to be my own god. I’ll decide what’s true. I’ll take what I think I’m owed.

Entitlement. The orphan spirit, fully formed.

The Moment Everything Changed

Here’s the moment when everything begins to change. Notice how Eve’s perception shifts in real time.

So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit. — Genesis 3:6

She saw that it was good.

God clearly said it was not good. So what happened? Eve is now seeing from a different vantage point. Before the twisting, the tree wasn’t desirable and now suddenly it is because she’s been told it would make her wise, like God. Her sight has been altered. The same tree, the same fruit, but a completely different perception. And the perception is now leading her.

This is an important detail: she also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. (Genesis 3:6)

With her. Adam was right there. It was his job to frame reality with her and to remind her they were already like God, already full, already loved. Instead, he stood beside her and watched this serpent frame their reality instead. Adam said nothing! The framer abdicated his framing.

Afterward, their eyes were opened, and what they saw was their own nakedness.

Scandal had come, causing them to see differently. Now there’s distrust toward God. Now there’s fear of being caught, and shame, and the desperate need to cover and control. I’m afraid and I’m ashamed, so I’ll do something to manage it. To medicate it. To stay in control.

That’s the whole orphan operating system in action.

Look at how God responds. He doesn’t come in with condemnation, instead He comes with a question.

“Where are you?” — Genesis 3:9

Of course God knows exactly where Adam is. I used to play hide and go seek with my children and at times they would hide on the other side of a tree. I could of course find them but it was so amusing to call out, “where are you?” This is a picture of what is happening. God is inviting Adam and Eve back into the light, giving them a chance to come out of hiding, to be honest, to be restored.

Adam responds and chooses to blame-shift. So does Eve when she’s offered the same invitation. Neither of them can simply say I was wrong, and I need You. This is the orphan mindset. The orphan feels like they have to defend, deflect, and control because the orphan no longer trusts the Father’s heart.

So What Did Adam and Eve Actually Lose?

So what did Adam and Eve actually lose?

They did’t just lose their innocence or access to the garden.

They lost their sight.

Adam and Eve lost the ability to see clearly. They lost the ability to see themselves as God saw them and to see the Father as He truly is. They could no longer view reality through the lenses of sonship rather than survival. Before the fall, they knew who they were. They were a son and daughter of creator God, made in the image of their Father. Adam was trusted with the naming of things. They walked in unbroken intimacy, not needing to earn their place. They didn’t have to perform or strive, their identity was simply given.

After the fall, that knowing was gone. They hid from God, covering themselves, blaming one another and the serpent. Adam and Eve became afraid, because they could no longer see God as their loving Father. God came looking, the same as always, with the same voice in the same garden, except now the two of them could only hear threat where there was mercy, exposure where there was invitation, and judgment where there was love.

That is the inheritance we were born into. Not merely a moral deficit, but a broken way of seeing. A fundamental disruption in how we perceive the Father, ourselves, and the world.

Adam and Eve lost the eyes of a son and daughter and every orphan spirit since has been living out the consequence.

The Vision Problem We Inherited

Here is what I want you to see, because it influences how you read your own life.

The fall was not only a moral failure. It was a vision problem.

Everything that went wrong flowed from a corrupted way of seeing. They saw lack where there was fullness. They saw a withholding God where there was a generous Father. They saw something to attain where everything had already been given.

We have inherited this same kind of disrupted sight. We strive because we believe we’re lacking and perform because we believe we have to earn what’s already ours. We reach out and try to take hold of something, because, deep down, the orphan in us doesn’t believe there’s a Father holding everything for us.

The apostle James, tells us the truth the serpent tried to bury: every good and perfect gift comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning. (James 1:17)

He is constant. He is not withholding. He is not hiding anything. The Father of lights is truth itself and has no shadow in Him at all.

You already have it. You always did.

The question isn’t whether the Father has been generous. The question is whether you can learn to see again.

Next: how Jesus taught us to recover our sight — and why the prayer you’ve recited a hundred times was never a formula, but a posture.

I love to share about Jesus’s baptism from Luke’s gospel because of the entire sequence of events. I find it fascinating that before the rest of Luke’s account unfolds, Jesus has this significant moment that shapes and shifts the rest of His life on earth.

Jesus hasn’t preached or healed anyone yet. He hasn’t turned water into wine or cast out a single demon. He walks into the Jordan River as a relatively unknown son of a carpenter from Nazareth — and before He does any public ministry, a voice comes from heaven.

“You are my beloved Son. In you I am well pleased.” — Luke 3:22

Before the ministry, miracles and the cross, the Father’s pleasure came first.

To understand how much weight that moment carries, you need to understand what was happening culturally. In first-century Jewish culture, when a father had a family trade, his son served as his apprentice. Much more than just learning a skills would be taking place, but being shaped into an heir. And at thirty years old, something formal happened. The son reached the age of maturity. The father would present him publicly, speak a blessing over him, and hand over the family business.

It was a declaration of trust, identity and inheritance.

Joseph isn’t mentioned after a certain point in Jesus’s life. We don’t know exactly when he died. But we know this: by the time Jesus is standing in that river, there’s no earthly father to speak that blessing over him.

And then the heavens open.

What the Father pronounced over Jesus became a public acknowledgement of something Jesus had already known as the ground he had always stood on, but the timing of this announcement came at exactly the moment he needed to hear it. Before entering the wilderness to face opposition and the weight of what was coming.

Jesus comes up out of the water, the Spirit descends, and then — he’s immediately led into the wilderness. Forty days. Hungry. Alone. Then the testing came.

Think about the sequence. The blessing doesn’t come after he survives the wilderness. It comes before. He goes into that wilderness carrying His Father’s voice.

And when He comes out, He walks into a synagogue in Nazareth on what Luke tells us was the Sabbath of the Jewish new year, He unrolls the Isaiah scroll and reads:

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me…” — Luke 4:18

Jesus was moved form a place of hearing His identity to boldly declaring it. He spoke boldly to the devil, now He spoke boldly before a group of people who were familiar with a previous version of Him.

He knew who he was because his Father had said so.

Familiarity contains the word “liar” in it. People who have grown up around you and have been close to you in childhood or in your developing years as a person, have the hardest time when you shift into the person who God has created you to be. It is in those times we need to hear the same voice of approval from our heavenly Father and hold on to the promises that He has spoken over us. We move forward because we live form what He says above any other voice.

You have a Father who spoke before you performed.

Romans 8 tells us that we’ve received the spirit of adoption — the same spirit that rested on Jesus at the Jordan. That spirit causes something specific to rise up in us that’s greater than a theological proposition or a doctrine to agree with. A heat felt cry.

That’s not the language of a servant who has now earned his place. That’s the language of a son who knows who his Father is and knows he belongs.

The enemy’s strategy in the wilderness was to get Jesus to prove what the Father had already declared. If you are the Son of God… reach out and do somthing…He didn’t take the bait. Not because he had already heard it.

Your Father has already spoken over you.

Before you built anything, overcame obstacles and left any legacy.

He said it first. That’s the whole point of grace.

A lot of us are still waiting for the voice. Still performing for God and trying to earn the moment where we feel like we’re enough.

That’s not how our Father works.

He doesn’t wait until you’ve proven yourself to call you His. He calls you His, and then sends you into the wilderness carrying that truth, so that when the enemy comes and says prove it, you already know there’s nothing to prove.

You’re not working toward his approval. You’re working from it.

This Father’s Day, whatever your relationship with your earthly father looks like, whether it was beautiful or broken or somewhere in the complicated middle, You have a Father who has already spoken truth over you.

Nobody wants to be called a sheep.

It implies you’re gullible. That you follow without thinking. That you’re part of a crowd moving in whatever direction the noise is loudest. In a culture that prizes independence, critical thinking, and personal authority, being a sheep sounds like the worst possible thing you could be.

I can totally understand the pushback given some of the shepherds people have had.

Many of us have given ourselves over to voices that led us somewhere we never should have gone. Some of those voices used us for their own gain, might have manipulated us using fear or flattery, and left us more wounded than when we found them. This teaches us to become suspicious of anyone who asks us to follow.

But as Christians we do not have just any ordinary shepherd.

Jesus makes a distinction in John 10 that we need to look at again and meditate on.

“He who does not enter the sheep fold by the door, but climbs up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber. But he who enters by the door is the shepherd of the sheep. To him the doorkeeper opens, and the sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.” — John 10:1-3

The thief doesn’t come through the door. He climbs over the wall. He finds another way in — through manipulation, deception, the promise of something that was never his to give. And at first can look so good and be so convincing. But eventually the sheep figure it out, because there’s something that just doesn’t seem right, something is off.

They will by no means follow a stranger, but will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers. — John 10:5

The sheep don’t follow the stranger because they know the real voice well enough to recognize the counterfeit. This discernment is born from intimacy.

Later in the same passage Jesus says something even more striking.

“I am the door of the sheep.” — John 10:7

Not just the shepherd — the door. The entry point. The way in and the way out.

And when you receive Jesus — when you join yourself to Him — Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 6:17 that he who is joined to the Lord has become one spirit with Him. The door isn’t just someone you walk through. He is someone you are united with. You always have access. You are never locked out. At any hour, in any season, in any condition — you can go in and out and find pasture.

“If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture.” — John 10:9

Then comes the contrast that defines everything.

“The thief does not come except to steal and to kill and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” — John 10:10

The enemy has always had the same mission statement. He comes to steal your dreams, kill your drive, and destroy your destiny. That’s not dramatic language — that’s a description of what happens when you follow the wrong voice long enough. You end up emptied of things that were meant to be yours.

Jesus comes with the opposite agenda. Life. Abundance. And He was willing to go to the cross to deliver on that promise.

Philippians 2 tells us Jesus emptied Himself, took on the position of a servant, humbled Himself — and was obedient even to death. He didn’t demand His rights or defend Himself before Pilate. He heard the Father’s voice and He followed it, all the way to the place that looked like defeat and became the doorway to everything!

I want to address something here, because I think we’ve gotten this wrong.

There’s a version of Christian teaching that talks about dying to self in a way that means dying to your personality, gifts, individuality — as if holiness looks like becoming less distinctly you. As if God is most pleased when you’ve erased what makes you you.

That’s not what Jesus modelled. He didn’t empty Himself of His personhood — He emptied Himself of His position. He willingly laid aside His divine privilege to come and serve. His character, His voice, His way of loving people — all of that remained entirely Himself.

When we lay our lives down before God, we are not surrendering our uniqueness. We are submitting our uniqueness — gifts, personality, and perspective — in service to the King. We are saying: all of this is Yours. Lead me with it. Use it for Your purposes.

Romans 12:1 puts it beautifully: “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.”

A living sacrifice. Not a dead one. Not a personality erased. A life — your actual life, with all its colour and complexity — laid willingly on the altar as a reasonable response to the mercy you’ve already received.

That’s the humility God is after. Not performance. Not conformity. Willing surrender.

Psalm 23 says He leads me in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.

Ephesians 2:10 says we are His workmanship, created for good works that He prepared beforehand, that we would walk in them.

There is a path that was prepared before you arrived at this moment. And sometimes that path goes through dark places — through seasons of discouragement, confusion, loss. But even in those places, He has gone before you. And what He placed in the darkness isn’t abandonment. It’s treasure. A grace that was hidden there specifically for you, that will catapult you further than you ever could have gone had you avoided the valley entirely.

The good shepherd doesn’t avoid the hard terrain. God knows what you’re going through but He is going to lead you through it. He goes before you into it, making a way in the unknown and unchartered territory.

I was preaching this on a Sunday morning — talking about how our ears get trained to recognize sounds we’ve heard before. How if you’ve worked around a saw and you know the sound of metal being cut, you’ll recognize it instantly, even from a distance.

The timing was so precise it stopped the room. It felt less like an illustration and more like God putting His own exclamation point on the message.

He wants you to hear Him. Not just prophets and apostles — everyday believers. People like you, in ordinary moments, learning to recognizes a voice they’ve heard before.

Romans 8:14 says that as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons of God.

The sheep who knows the shepherd’s voice isn’t mindless, it just know’s it’s safe. It’s known by name. It’s being led somewhere good by someone who already gave everything to prove it.

So choose to be a sheep.

Not because you’re naive. But because you know whose voice you’re following and His plans and purposes for you are good.

Activation: Praying Through Psalm 23

Read each line slowly taking the time to let each line land. We are going to pray through it together. Make the prayer your own.

“The Lord is my shepherd”

Prayer: Lord, I make the decision today to trust You to lead me as my shepherd. Help me to make that decision every single day. I choose Your voice over every other voice competing for my attention.

“I shall not want”

Prayer: Lord, I declare today that as I follow Your voice, You will protect and provide for me. I will not live in a spirit of lack or fear. You are enough, and You are faithful.

“He makes me lie down in green pastures”

Prayer: Father, I surrender my striving to You. Teach me to rest in You as a daily posture of trust. Lead me to the places of restoration that only You can give.

“He leads me beside still waters”

Prayer: Lord, calm the noise in my life. Still the anxiety, the hurry, the distraction. Lead me to the quiet place where I can hear You clearly again.

“He restores my soul”

Prayer: Where I am weary, broken, or worn down — restore me, Lord. You know the parts of me that need healing. I trust You with all of my heart.

“He leads me in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake”

Prayer: Father, I don’t want to wander. Lead me in the right paths — not just for my sake, but for Yours. Let my life bring honour to Your name.

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil”

Prayer: Lord, I acknowledge that not every path You lead me through will be easy. But I choose to walk through the valleys without fear — because You are with me. What You placed in the darkness is not abandonment. It’s treasure. I trust You in the hard places.

“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me”

Prayer: Thank You, Lord, that Your presence goes before me, behind me, and with me. Your correction is not rejection — it is love. I receive Your guidance and I welcome Your protection.

“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies”

Prayer: God, I believe You can bring breakthrough in the very places where opposition has tried to stop me. You don’t just rescue me from the battle — You seat me at a table right in the middle of it. My enemies cannot stop the favour and promotion that You bring to me. I receive the honour You have prepared for me.

“You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows”

Prayer: Lord, anoint me afresh today. Fill me so completely and overflow out of me and into the lives of everyone around me. I don’t want to just survive life, I want to overflow and pour out refreshing others.

“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life”

Prayer: I declare today that goodness and mercy are constant companions. Every day, for all of my days, You are working things together for my good.

“And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever”

Prayer: This is my home. I belong to You. I live in Your presence now and for eternity. And because I am Yours, I choose today — and every day — to be a sheep who knows the shepherd’s voice.

Amen.

I wrote this song out of a moment where God shifted something in me about what the secret place actually is. So before I taught about it — I sang it.

This one’s just for you. Grab something warm, find a quiet moment, and let it find you where you are.

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There is a lie so old it predates every religion, every philosophy, every self-help system ever written.

It goes all the way back to a garden. And it sounds like this: reach out and take something — because what you need isn’t already yours.

That’s the original lie. Not just that God was withholding, but that you have to do something, grab something, earn something, in order to become something. The serpent didn’t tempt Adam and Eve with overt evil — he tempted them with the idea that they were lacking. That who God made them to be in His own image, was not yet enough. That the gap between where they were and where they “needed to be” could only be closed by their own reaching.

We’ve been reaching ever since.

Romans 8:14-15 cuts right through it.

“For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, Abba, Father.”

Two spirits are named here. The spirit of bondage — which produces fear. And the Spirit of adoption — which produces sonship.

Fear is an emotion, yes. But in this context it’s more than a feeling — it’s an entire operating system. It’s the posture of someone who believes they are on their own. Someone who has to perform to be accepted, strive to be loved, and earn what others seem to receive freely. That’s not just anxiety. That’s an orphan mindset.

And Paul says — you did not receive that spirit. That is not what was given to you.

What was given to you is adoption.

Adoption changes everything about how you relate to the Father.

You didn’t earn your way into this family. You were brought in. Blood bought. Welcome, not because of what you produced but because of the precious sacrifice of Jesus paid on the cross in order for you to choose to be chosen! And the proof that the adoption has taken hold — the sign that it’s real and not just theological language — is that something in you rises up and says Abba. My Father.

That word Abba is intimate in a way that translations can’t fully carry. It’s not a formal address. It’s the cry of a child who knows they belong. My Father. When Jesus was teaching His disciples how to pray, He started with, “My Father”. Not a distant authority. Not a judge waiting to rule on your performance. A Father that you can call your own. Jesus prayed for us a powerful prayer in John 17:23 where He prayed that we would know that we are loved just as Father loves Him. Isn’t that amazing?

That truth our adoption removes entitlement entirely!

The orphan grasps because the orphan has no guarantee of provision. The orphan hustles, manipulates, performs — not out of malice but out of survival. When you don’t have a Father, you have to secure things for yourself. You reach out and take because nobody is holding anything for you.

But a son or daughter doesn’t live like that.

That’s not being passive — but because they know who their Father is. They know the table is already set. They know the inheritance is real. They don’t have to grab, because they already belong to the One who holds everything.

Grace can only be fully understood through the lens of sonship.

Because grace isn’t just unmerited favour — as true as that is. Grace is the atmosphere of the Father’s house. It’s what the air is made of when you know you’re home. You can’t really receive grace while you’re still operating as an orphan — because an orphan turns everything, even grace, into a transaction. What do I need to do to keep this? How long before it runs out? What if I blow it?

Sonship is what allows grace to land.

When you know you’re adopted — when that cry of Abba is more than theology and becomes something your heart actually knows — grace stops being a concept and becomes a reality you live inside of.

This month I’m releasing a 7-day devotional called You Were Never The Project — Discovering the Grace That Loved You Before You Were Good.

It was born out of exactly this. The realization that so many believers are still reaching — still living as though the gap between them and God’s love is something they have to close. Still performing for a Father who has already pulled them close.

You were never the project. The cross of Jesus speaks of your incredible worth! Father God was declaring what He already knew — that you were worth everything. Before you were good. Before you got it right. Before you figured it out.

You’ve been adopted.

You have a Father.

You can stop reaching now.

You Were Never The Project is coming this month. Stay close.

Learning to Hear: God Speaks Through Spontaneous Thoughts

Before we close this out, I want to give you something practical. Because all of this — sonship, adoption, the Father’s love — isn’t just something to believe. It’s something to experience.

One of the ways God speaks to His children is through spontaneous thoughts — impressions, pictures, and words that arise quietly in the mind and carry a quality that is different from our usual mental noise. These thoughts tend to be uplifting, life-filled, and encouraging. They don’t condemn. They don’t crush. They call you up. They sound like love.

Paul prays in Ephesians 1 that the eyes of our understanding would be enlightened — and this speaks directly to what some have called the sanctified imagination. This is part of the technology God has given us to commune with Him. The imagination, submitted to the Holy Spirit, becomes a place of encounter. It becomes holy ground.

If this feels unfamiliar, I want to reassure you with something Jesus said. In John 10:27, He makes a remarkable promise: “My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.” He didn’t say some of His sheep hear His voice. He didn’t say the specially gifted or the spiritually advanced. He said My sheep — and if you belong to Him, that means you. Hearing from God is not a rare privilege reserved for prophets and mystics. It is the ordinary inheritance of every child who has been adopted into His family.

The exercise below isn’t about manufacturing an experience or talking yourself into something. It’s about quieting down long enough to become aware of the One who is already there. In a previous article I called this “practising awareness”. Your imagination, surrendered to the Holy Spirit, is not a gateway to deception — it’s a faculty God created, and one He loves to fill. Come with an open and willing heart, and trust that the Good Shepherd knows how to reach His own.

So we’re going to use both today. We’re going to journal, and we’re going to imagine. And the one rule as we do is this: don’t judge what comes. Just write it out. You might be surprised at what surfaces when you stop filtering and start receiving.

Practical Activations

Activation One — The Journaling Exercise

Take a piece of paper or open your journal. Don’t think too hard. Don’t edit yourself. Just write out whatever comes in response to these two questions:

Father, what lies have I been believing about myself?

What are some beliefs I have about you that I know are not true?

Write whatever comes. Don’t judge it. Don’t filter it. Let the Holy Spirit surface things you may have been carrying for a long time without realizing it. The page is safe. This is just between you and your Father.

Activation Two — The Encounter

Find a quiet place. Close your eyes. Take a few slow breaths and let your body settle.

Now picture yourself in your favourite place. It might be a beach, a forest, a quiet room, somewhere from your childhood, or somewhere you’ve always dreamed of. Let the scene come. Take a moment to really inhabit it — the smells, the textures, the light, the sounds, the emotions that rise when you’re there. Don’t rush. Spend time just being in that place.

And then — notice that Jesus is there with you.

Take in the details. Notice His face. What does He look like? What is He wearing? What is His expression as He looks at you? Take your time. There is no rush here.

Now take the piece of paper you wrote on in Activation One — those lies, those false beliefs — and hand it to Him. Notice what He does with it. Notice His hands. Notice His face. Let the encounter unfold without forcing it. Take in the whole experience.

Stay there as long as you need to.

Activation Three — Your Special Name

When you’re ready, take a fresh sheet of paper. And ask the Father this one last question:

Father, what are the names you give to only me?

These are not names the world gave you. Not the name your wounds gave you. Not the name your performance gave you. These are the names only a Father knows. The names He whispered over you before the foundations of the world.

Write down everything that comes. Don’t judge it. Don’t dismiss it. You are a child of the Father. And He knows your name.

For a long time, the phrase “secret place”, made me feel like I was missing something.

Have you ever heard someone describe their time with God like this? Someone stands up and shares how they were walking through a misty forest at dawn — the birds singing, the light breaking through the trees — and they were just in their secret place with God and they heard Him speak to their hearts. Or they climbed a mountain. Or they sat by a river. And it all sounded so sacred, so cinematic. Like God only shows up in settings that belong on a worship album cover.

And I’d be sitting there thinking: “That sounds so epic, I want a secret place too God! I don’t really do misty forest walks. What does that mean about me?”

I genuinely wondered if I was less spiritual. Less tuned in. Like everyone else had received a memo I’d somehow missed.

Until one day, I felt God speak something to me that changed everything.

“Ben — the awareness of My presence is the secret place. Once you’re aware, you’re there.”

That was it. No mountain. No birds. No dramatic setting required. Just awareness.

It Is Not About Geography

This means the secret place is not about a location. It is not about finding the right conditions, the right atmosphere, or the perfect quiet corner of the world, those are hard to come by. It’s about turning your attention toward the One who is already there — already with you, already speaking, already near.

Jesus said it plainly: “When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen.” (Matthew 6:6)

The room He was describing wasn’t a physical location. It was an orientation of the heart. It was an invitation into intimacy or rather in-to-me-see. God desires to not only know us but to be known by us. When we come to God with a true heart desiring to share our lives and be vulnerable with Him, we are cultivating a lifestyle of intimacy. This private history should undergird any public ministry.

You can be in that place right now. In your car. In the middle of a hard week. On a flight between Montreal and Moncton. In a season that doesn’t look or feel particularly spiritual at all.

The moment you become truly aware that He is present — you have arrived.

He Is Already Leaning In

He is not withholding Himself. He is not waiting for you to find the right setting or manufacture the right feeling. He is already leaning in. Already listening. Already ready to reveal Himself to anyone who simply becomes aware.

“I want to speak to you. I want to know your heart. I’m listening for every word. And I will reveal myself.”

God does not play hard to get. He doesn’t hide behind layers of spiritual performance you have to unlock. God is actively oriented toward you. He is fully devoted, available and accessible as a loving Father to you.

And when you do turn your attention there, this is who you find:

Love. Peace. Joy. Endless mercy. Promises that are true. A heart that is devoted to you.

These are not things He gives when He feels the conditions are right. God is constant and these are attributes of who He is, all the time, whether you feel them or not.

The Secret Place Is Not a Spiritual Achievement

The secret place is not reserved for mystics and mountain climbers. It is not the reward for people who have their quiet times sorted and their prayer life together, because who really has that? It is available to every person who pauses long enough to say: “Here I am God, I know You are too”.

Because He is. He always has been.

And the moment that lands in your heart — the moment awareness breaks through — you’ll realize you were never as far from Him as you felt. You were just learning to recognize where you already were.

How to Posture Yourself for the Secret Place

Knowing the secret place is about awareness, not atmosphere, is so freeing. But we can still be intentional about cultivating awareness. Here are three practical ways to posture yourself toward it.

1. Pause and acknowledge His presence

You don’t need to manufacture a feeling or wait for the perfect quiet moment. Simply stop — wherever you are — and say it out loud or in your heart: “God I know you are here”. That single acknowledgement is the door. Not a long prayer, not a ritual. Just a turning of attention toward the One who has been present all along.

2. Practise internal prayer throughout your day

The secret place isn’t only accessed in long quiet times — it’s something you can step into moment by moment. I do this in a crowded room, at Starbucks or any social event even. Throughout your day, try short, simple prayers: “Thank You for being here.” “I’m aware of You right now.” “Speak to me, I’m listening.” These small, repeated acknowledgements of His presence train you to live in constant awareness. Over time, what starts as a habit will become a natural way of operating with God daily.

3. Let Scripture anchor your awareness

Sometimes we need something outside ourselves to bring us back. Find a verse that speaks of His nearness and return to it often. Psalm 139:7 — “Where can I go from Your Spirit?” Jeremiah 23:23 — “Am I not a God who is near?” Even Matthew 6:6 itself. Read it slowly. Let it remind you that the Father isn’t distant — He is already in the room, already turned toward you. Scripture isn’t just information; it’s an invitation back into awareness.

The invitation is still standing.

Meet me in the secret place.

He already has.

This piece was written alongside a song called “Meet Me,” first written in 2016 when this revelation came. It’s simple, almost bare — because the truth it carries is simple. I’ll be performing it for subscribers soon.

For a long time I preached grace and meant every word of it. But something was missing — and it took a global pandemic, a season of stillness, and a mentor opening the scriptures in a way I’d never heard before for me to finally find language for what it was.

The missing piece was the conscience. The interior place where the Spirit of God communicates. Where correction arrives as love rather than condemnation. Where genuine Godly choices become possible not because someone is watching — but because something in you has been formed to recognise what is true.

This devotional is my attempt to hand that to people. Seven days in the grace that doesn’t just forgive you — it grounds you. Written for the person new to faith looking for something solid to stand on, and for the person who’s been around long enough to be tired of performing.

You Were Never the Project: Discovering the Grace That Loved You Before You Were Good is coming this summer.

You’ll hear about it here first.

— Ben

Out the door and on the go. Coffee in hand and on the way to drop the kids off to school and then straight into a morning meeting. Yes “life is lifeing” and the clock is ticking us all right into another day and if we are not conscious and intentional we can easily experience the very same routine day to day, week to week and before we know it year after year.

This is the truth, you can always learn something new. The problem is rarely a lack of information or access — we live in the most resource-rich era in human history. The real issue is intentionality. When we decide to live with intentionality, we take responsibility for the work required to grow and change, so we can step into who God has called us to be.

And here’s the beautiful thing about learning: it’s an act of stewardship. I’m not trying to guilt you in any way, very mush the opposite, I want to encourage you and tell you that you can become everything that God says you already are in Him! When you understand that God has deposited gifts, callings, and wisdom inside of you, choosing to grow and develop those things is simply you saying “yes” to what He’s already placed in your hands. Good stewardship isn’t about trying to earn more from God — it’s about honouring what He’s already given you.

Let this truth become an anchor you: your current situation is not your final destination. Scripture reminds us that God has already provided everything we need for life and godliness. As 2 Peter 1:3 declares, “His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.” You already have everything you need — in Christ.

It’s Not Just Willpower — It’s Surrender

Upon receiving Jesus Christ, you received the person of grace — the One who enables you to become everything He says you already are. Philippians 2:13 tells us, “For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” Some translations say He gives you both the desire and the power to do what pleases Him.

This means your growth is not merely a matter of willpower. It is a matter of surrender — yielding to the One who lives inside you and who is able to do “exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us” (Ephesians 3:20). It’s not about striving harder in your own strength. It’s about surrendering to His divine ability within you.

You are full of power, full of authority, and full of potential. You are anointed. As 1 John 2:20 says, “But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and all of you know the truth.” The only person who can stop you from walking in this is you.

Strategies for Micro-Learning: Uploading What Has Already Been Downloaded

Here are four practical keys to help you activate — or “upload” — what Christ has already deposited in your spirit:

Pray Without Ceasing

As you go about your day, stay in a posture of prayer. Paul instructs us in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 to “pray without ceasing.” This isn’t about reciting long prayers — it’s about intentionally making yourself available to God throughout your day, so that creativity and inspiration can flow freely. When you pray without ceasing, you are positioning yourself to be interrupted by God in the best possible way.

If you pray in tongues, this is particularly powerful — but the Spirit is able to pray through you regardless of your spiritual gifts or experiences, as long as you are coming to God with a true heart, willing to receive wisdom and apply it.

Read the Bible Every Day

Set aside intentional time every day to read the Bible. Jesus said the words He speaks are “spirit and life” (John 6:63). As you consistently feed on the Word, it comes alive inside of you, causing you to grow into the person He says you already are — someone who carries an anointing from the Holy Spirit and who, by that anointing, knows all things (1 John 2:20).

Worship — Stay Aware of His Presence

Listen to worship music that keeps you sensitive to the presence of God — who is not only inside you, but around you at all times. Worship cultivates awareness of the Creator who is at work within you. And because you are made in His image, you are creative by nature. When you stay connected to the source, creativity and inspired thought naturally follow.

Use the Tools Available to You

God has not left you without resources — and that includes the practical tools right in your hands. We live in an era where the tools to capture, organize, and develop ideas are more accessible than ever. Don’t let a great idea slip away because you didn’t capture it.

For example, when an idea for an article or a message comes to me, I always have my smartphone nearby. I pull it out and record a voice memo on the spot. Why? Because I’m a verbal processor — I think out loud. In fact, the bare-bones structure of this very article started as a voice dictation into my notes app. That’s why, if you read it carefully, you’ll notice I often write the way I speak. That’s not an accident — that’s a process. And it works.

You don’t have to be a “writer” to write. You just have to be willing to use what God has put in your hands. Whether it’s voice memos, a notes app, a journal, or even a napkin — capture the download when it comes. The Holy Spirit is speaking. Make sure you’re in a position to receive it and record it.

A Practical Note on Micro-Learning

You don’t have to carve out large blocks of time to keep learning and growing. You can micro-learn throughout your day — in small but intentional batches. Here are some simple ways to do it:

Listen to podcasts, audiobooks, or YouTube videos while you’re commuting, cooking, or even in the shower (leave your phone just outside and let the sound carry in). Redeem the time in your car or on the bus. These pockets of time add up fast, and over weeks and months, you’ll be amazed at how much ground you can cover

Paul encourages us in Ephesians 5:16 to be “making the most of every opportunity.” That’s stewardship in action — not a burden, but a mindset. Every commute, every lunch break, every quiet moment is an opportunity to sow into the person God is growing you into. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. Every small, intentional step is a seed, and seeds always produce a harvest.

You Already Have Everything You Need

The information age is not your problem. Intentionality is your opportunity. You have been given everything you need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3). God is actively at work in you — giving you both the will and the power to live out His purposes (Philippians 2:13). You are anointed, empowered, and loved beyond measure.

So be a good steward of that — not out of pressure, but out of gratitude and wonder. Paul prayed in Ephesians 1:17-18 that God would give us “the Spirit of wisdom and revelation” so that we would know “the hope of his calling.” Read that again, God has a hope in your calling! He’s not watching nervously, wondering if you’ll figure it out. He already did the work. Jesus went to the cross, conquered sin and death, and in doing so released you from performance once and for all. He gave you His righteousness as a gift — not something you earn but something you walk in even on your worst day! Your growth isn’t you trying to become worthy. It’s you discovering who you already are in Him.

Think about the parable of the talents in Matthew 25:14-30. The servant who buried what he was given wasn’t motivated by evil — he was motivated by fear. And that’s exactly what the enemy wants: to keep you hiding what God has placed in you. But as Timothy writes “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind”. Here is something to consider: when you choose not to grow, not to develop your gifts, not to show up fully as yourself — you’re not just holding something back from yourself. You are depriving the world of the unique expression of Christ that only you carry. Nobody else has your story, your voice, your perspective, your particular combination of gifts. The world needs the Christ in you — expressed through you, in your own irreplaceable way.

That’s not a burden — that’s a calling. And it’s one He has already equipped you for.

Now decide today: your current situation is not your final destination. Adopt the mindset of intentionality, surrender to His divine ability inside of you, and watch Him do exceedingly abundantly above all that you could ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).

You already have everything you need. It’s time to step out courageously and be who you already are in HIM. You’ve got this!

I did not plan to have a life-changing encounter with God on a WestJet regional flight to Moncton.

The morning started in pure chaos. New phone. Alarm set for 5:30 PM instead of AM. My ride was already waiting outside when I woke up, and we were out the door by 6:15. I had a guitar with me — which meant oversize baggage, possibly a longer security line, which meant I was now running the math on whether this was actually going to happen. Gate by 7:45. I kept refreshing the time on my phone like that was somehow going to help.

And underneath all of that was something quieter and heavier — the people who had generously covered this trip so I could go spend a weekend serving in worship. I didn’t want to let them down. I didn’t want to let myself down. The only thing I could do at that point was pray, and I did, out loud under my breath in an airport that probably had better things to listen to. God, please bend time. Slow it down. Just let me make this flight.

After running halfway across the airport to my gate, I made it with ten minutes to spare.

I got on the plane relieved, grateful, and although I was slightly sweaty from my morning run, ready for whatever God had ahead — then promptly wedged myself into a seat where the person in front of me had already reclined fully, my knees were somewhere they shouldn’t be, and I was chewing gum like my life depended on it because my ears don’t handle pressure well. Not exactly a picture of composed ministry readiness.

I put my AirPods in and opened whatever had recently downloaded to my device. It was a compilation album called House of Worship. Songs I have heard literally hundreds of times. Songs I have led hundreds of times — for congregations, conferences, youth camps, Sunday mornings, late-night prayer sets. These are songs I could sing in my sleep.

What happened next I genuinely did not see coming.

The tears just came. Not quietly, either. Not the kind where you dab your eye and collect yourself — the kind where your whole chest fills up with something you can’t name, and your face stops cooperating, and the person in the seat next to you starts glancing over. And I could not have cared less. I wasn’t embarrassed. I wasn’t trying to hold it together. All I wanted was to stay right there and keep receiving whatever this was.

What it was, was Love. Not a feeling — a Person. Total acceptance. Total peace. An overwhelming fullness that had nothing to do with the cramped seat or the stressful morning or anything in my circumstances, and everything to do with who God simply is.

I walked off that plane still undone. Still falling apart in the best possible way. The person waiting to meet me got the full version of that, whether they were ready for it or not.

Here’s what it reminded me of, and what I think we too easily forget: love isn’t something God sends from a distance. Neither is peace, or grace. These aren’t things He has — they’re things He is.

John writes that God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all (1 John 1:5). He doesn’t carry light. He doesn’t turn it on when He enters the room. He simply is light, and darkness cannot coexist with His presence — it just has nowhere to go. It’s the same when John says God is love (1 John 4:8). That’s not a characteristic on a list. That’s a statement about His essence.

And here is where it gets breathtaking. We tend to read 1 Corinthians 13 as instructions for us — how to love better, how to be more patient and kind. But read it again, this time putting God’s name in place of the word “love”:

God is patient. God is kind. He does not envy, He does not boast, He is not proud. He does not dishonour others. He is not self-seeking. He is not easily angered. He keeps no record of wrongs. He does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. He always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. God never fails.

That’s not poetry. That’s a portrait.

That is the Person who found me at 30,000 feet, chewing gum with my knees against the back of someone’s reclined seat, stressed from a morning that started on the wrong side of a phone alarm — and simply loved me until I couldn’t hold myself together anymore.

He’s not patient with you in theory. He is patience. He’s not kind when He gets around to it. He is kindness. He doesn’t check a box labelled “keeps no record of wrongs.” There is simply no record. It doesn’t exist.

That’s what happened to me. Somewhere between Montreal and Moncton, Love just found me. Not in a church, not in a quiet moment — in the middle of the mess. He didn’t wait for me to be composed. He just showed up. He’ll do the same for you.

If you want to position yourself to receive it, here’s where I’d start:

Get quiet, even briefly. You don’t need an hour. You need a moment where you stop performing and stop producing and just stop. Put some worship music on. Sit in your car before you go inside. Let there be space.

Open your hands. Not metaphorically — literally. It’s a posture of surrender that your body understands even when your mind is still catching up. And just say something like: I receive You. Not what You can give me — You. Come as You are.

Let yourself feel it. We are so trained to manage our emotions in spiritual spaces. If something starts to move in you, don’t tidy it up. Don’t explain it away. Just stay there. Let Love do what Love does.

That’s it. No formula. No five steps to a deeper walk. Just a person, opened up, saying yes to being found.

Because when that love finds you — and it will — there is only one thing left to say:

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear.” — 1 John 4:18

There is a question that has been sitting with me as a personal conviction that keeps pressing deeper into my own life.

What if we actually lived like sons and daughters of God — not just in how we pray, but in how we create?

In the Beginning, God Created

The very first thing the Bible tells us about God is that He creates. Before we know His name, before we know His law, before we understand His love — we see His creativity. “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). It is His first act where He reveals Himself leaving His divine fingerprint on everything that exists.

And then He makes man and woman in His image. Not in the image of an angry tyrant or in the image of a detached deity. In the image of a Creator. “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them” (Genesis 1:27). Which means the instinct to make things — to build a structure or paint a beautiful picture, write original music, cook a family meal to design a logo, to imagine — is not a hobby or a luxury. It is a reflection of who God is, woven into the very fabric of who we are.

The Psalmist captured this when he wrote, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). You are not an accident or something that was mass produced on an assembly line. You are a handcrafted image-bearer of a creative God, and the creativity inside you is part of that design.

We were made to create. Not just to consume.

The Scroll and the Screen

Here is a simple, honest question: how much time did you spend today consuming content? Be honest there’s no shade here.

Scrolling social media. Watching TV. Listening to podcasts. Flipping through short videos. Refreshing feeds. Taking in, taking in, taking in — an endless river of other people’s voices, other people’s stories, other people’s creativity pouring into us. And most of us do this for hours every single day.

Now I’m not here to guilt anyone about watching Netflix or enjoying Instagram. There is nothing inherently wrong with consuming good content. Rest is real. Entertainment has its place. But here is a thought I want to challenge you with:we have traded the posture of a creator for the posture of a consumer — and most of us don’t even realize it. We are image-bearers of a creative God, and we are spending our evenings watching other people live.

Sonship Changes Everything

One of the most transformative things the Gospel gives us is not just forgiveness — it is identity. Through Christ, we are not merely servants pardoned from punishment. We are sons and daughters welcomed into the family of God. “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1). Adopted. Beloved. Fully accepted.

And this should changes the entire posture of how we live — including how we create. Think about what drives most human creativity in the world. Approval. Recognition. Validation. We create to prove something — to ourselves, to our parents, to an audience, to the algorithm. We create out of strife. We grind hoping someone will finally tell us we are “enough” and that our work “matters”, that we matter.

But sonship breaks that cycle entirely. When you know you are loved by the Father — truly, deeply, unconditionally loved before you have done a single thing to earn it — the need to create for approval evaporates. You are not creating to become someone. You are creating because of who you already are. A son. A daughter. An heir of the MOST HIGH who spoke the cosmos into existence. As Paul writes, “The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship” (Romans 8:15).

That is not striving. That is overflow.

Creating from Overflow, Not Obligation

There is a profound difference between creating from obligation and creating from overflow. Obligation creates to prove itself. It is anxious, driven by the fear of falling short, desperate for applause. It asks, “Will this be good enough? Will people like it? Will it perform?” It is exhausting work because it is never finished — there is always another benchmark to meet, another audience to please. Another rung on the ladder of a life of performance.

Overflow creates from rest. It is grounded in love, not fear. When you are secure in the Father’s love — when you genuinely know that you are His and nothing you do or fail to do changes that — then creation becomes an act of joy rather than an act of survival. Paul put it this way: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” (Colossians 3:23). That is the key shift. When God is your audience, the tyranny of other people’s opinions loses its grip.

This is the freedom that sonship unlocks. You don’t create to earn God’s blessing. You create, and then you surrender that creation to Him — and He blesses what is offered in faith.

Creativity Is Stewardship

In Matthew 25, Jesus tells the Parable of the Talents. A master entrusts his servants with resources before leaving on a journey — five talents to one, two to another, one to a third. When he returns, the servants who invested and multiplied what they were given are celebrated: “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things” (Matthew 25:21). But the servant who buried his talent out of fear? His master’s response is sobering.

Here is what strikes me about this parable: it is not about money. It is about faithful use of whatever God has placed in your hands. Whether it’s your creativity — your ability to write, build, design, teach, cook, lead, make, imagine — is a talent. It was entrusted to you by the Master. And one day, He will ask what you did with it.

The question is not whether you are “talented enough”. The question is whether you are being a faithful steward of what you have already been given. Every hour spent passively consuming when you were created to actively make is, in a very real sense, a buried talent. Not because rest is wrong, but because a buried gift — hidden away out of fear, insecurity, or simple inertia — honors neither you nor the One who gave it.

God blesses what is surrendered to Him. A boy offers five loaves and two fish — small, ordinary, not nearly enough on their own. But placed in the hands of Jesus and offered freely, it becomes more than enough for thousands (John 6:9–11). This is a picture of how the Kingdom works when we create with open hands. He takes what we offer and multiplies it beyond what we could achieve alone.

So the practical question becomes: how do we actually begin to steward our creativity well? How do we break out of the consumption cycle and start creating from the overflow of sonship? Here are five steps rooted in Scripture that you can implement right now.

Five Steps to Steward Your Creativity Well

1. Take an Honest Inventory

The master in the parable knew exactly what he had entrusted to each servant. Do you know what God has entrusted to you? Go to your phone’s Screen Time (iPhone) or Digital Wellbeing (Android) settings right now and look at your weekly average. See the actual number. How many hours per week are you consuming versus creating? Write it down. Then ask yourself honestly: if I stood before the Lord today, would I call myself a faithful steward of the time and gifts He has given me? Let that question be conviction, not condemnation — and let it be the first step toward change.

2. Name the Gift God Has Placed in You

Scripture reminds us that “each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms” (1 Peter 4:10). You don’t need to create in every medium — just one. Grab a piece of paper and finish this sentence: “The gift God has placed in me that I have not fully used is ____________.” It could be writing, teaching, building, designing, cooking, leading, making music, creating with your hands, mentoring, or something entirely your own. Write the first thing that comes to mind. That is probably the one. Start there.

3. Protect a Daily Creator Hour

Moses was instructed to “teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12). Time is the one resource you cannot get back. Open your calendar right now and block one hour each day this week — ideally in the morning, before the noise crowds in. Label it your “Creator Hour.” During that hour: phone face down, notifications off, no consuming. Only making. Treat it like a meeting with God, because in a very real sense, that is exactly what it is — an act of stewardship, an investment of the time He has given you back into the purposes He made you for.

4. Begin Imperfectly — Begin Today

The servant who buried his talent didn’t bury it because he lacked ability — he buried it because he was afraid (Matthew 25:25). Perfectionism is fear wearing a creative costume, and it is almost always rooted in a failure to rest in sonship. Here is your permission slip: your first attempt does not have to be good. It just has to exist. Write the ugly first draft. Record the shaky first video. Plant the first seeds. God does not need your masterpiece to start working through you — He just needs your obedience. Do the first five minutes of your one thing today. Not tomorrow. Today.

5. Offer It Back to God and Release the Outcome

At the end of each creative session, before you close your notebook or shut your laptop, take sixty seconds and pray over what you made. It doesn’t have to be eloquent. Something like: “Father, this is Yours. I don’t know what You want to do with it, but I trust You. Bless it. Use it. Help me to keep creating from love, not from fear.” Then let it go. Don’t obsess over the outcome. Don’t refresh the stats. “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans” (Proverbs 16:3). Leave the results in His hands — that is where the blessing lives, and it is where a faithful steward rests.

You Were Made for This

These five steps will not make you famous. They will not guarantee virality, income, or applause. But they will do something far more valuable: they will make you a faithful steward of what God placed inside you. And over time, a life full of things you have made — created from the overflow of His love, surrendered to Him with open hands — is one of the most powerful testimonies of sonship there is.

You are not a consumer with a screen addiction. You are a son. You are a daughter. You are a co-creator made in the image of the God who spoke light into darkness, who formed beauty from nothing, and who looked at what He made and called it very good.

One day He will look at you and ask what you did with what He gave you. Let your answer be: I used it. I offered it. I held it out with open hands and trusted You with the rest.

That is not the prayer of a slave. That is the prayer of a son.

You were made to create. Go and make something.

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There is a kind of pain that doesn’t make it onto anybody’s highlight reel.

It doesn’t trend. It doesn’t get shared. It doesn’t look like anything from the outside. It just sits with you — quietly, persistently — in rooms where nobody is watching.

I know that pain. I’ve lived it.

For seven years, I worked in the laundry room of a hotel.

Not on the stage. Not in the pulpit. Not in front of a crowd. In a laundry room — feeding linen into huge industrial washing machines, hour after hour, working the overnight shift as a washman while the rest of the world slept.

I want to be honest with you about what that felt like, because I think some of you are living in your own version of that laundry room right now.

I knew I was called. I wasn’t confused about that. One of the most recognized evangelists in the world at the time — had spoken over my life. He said he felt like God was saying that I would see miracles, even the dead raised and travel around the world ministering the gospel. Those words were real. They were weighty. I received them.

And then I went back to the laundry room.

Night after night. Year after year. Seven years.

The word hadn’t changed. The calling hadn’t disappeared. But the gap between what I knew in my spirit and what I could see with my eyes was enormous. And nobody really talks about what it costs you to live in that gap.

I think about David.

Samuel came and anointed him. Poured the oil over his head. Declared him the next king of Israel. And then — David went back to the sheep.

Think about that for a moment.

The anointing was real. The word was genuine. God had spoken through his prophet. And yet David returned to the fields, to the hills, to the silence. Just the sheep, the wind, and God.

There was no audience for what God was doing in David during those years. No crowd watching him grow. No one to validate the process. Just a young man with a harp and a call he couldn’t fully explain, learning to worship in a place where only Heaven could hear him.

“The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” — 1 Samuel 16:7

David wasn’t hidden from God. He was hidden with God.

That is not the same thing.

The pain of hiddenness is real. I’m not going to dress it up.

There’s a particular ache that comes from knowing what you carry — and watching the world move forward without seeming to notice. You wonder if the word was real. You wonder if the season will ever shift. You wonder, on the hard nights, if you somehow missed it.

But here’s what I’ve learned: hiddenness is not abandonment.

God is not unaware of where you are. He placed you there.

The laundry room wasn’t a detour from my calling — it was part of the formation of it. The silence wasn’t God’s absence. It was His classroom. In those seven years, He was working on something in me that a platform never could have produced. He was dealing with my heart. He was teaching me to trust Him without an audience. He was cultivating in me the kind of root system that could eventually hold the weight of what He’d spoken.

You can’t rush that. You can only receive it.

Even now, I won’t pretend the tension has fully resolved.

Even to this day as a entrepreneur and minister, building something that not everyone around me can see or fully understand, there are still moments when I feel the weight of it — the aloneness, the misunderstanding, the sense of being unseen. That doesn’t go away just because the season shifts.

But I know something now that I wish someone had told me in the laundry room:

Being hidden from people is not the same as being hidden from God.

He sees you. He knows your name. He hasn’t forgotten the word He spoke over you. The anointing doesn’t expire because the timing is slow.

And if you’re in your own version of the fields right now — if you’re carrying something real in a place that feels small — I want you to hear this:

David didn’t become a great king in spite of the wilderness years. He became one because of them.

The shepherd heart that learned to protect those sheep — that same heart would one day shepherd a nation. The worship that rose from those lonely hills — that same intimacy would make him a man after God’s own heart.

What God is doing in you right now is not wasted. It is not delayed. It is preparation.

You are not hidden from God.

You are hidden with Him.

And there is no safer, more sacred place to be.

She didn’t start out with a title.

She started out as a woman who waited. Quietly. Faithfully. For longer than anyone should have to.

Elizabeth’s story in Luke 1 doesn’t begin with a platform or a special gifting. It begins with decades of carrying something that never came — and the weight of being defined by what hadn’t happened yet.

But God remembered her. And when He moved, He didn’t just give her what she had been waiting for. He gave her something to say.

Because that’s what happens when God fulfills a promise — it doesn’t stay silent. It speaks. And every one of us who has held onto what God has spoken is called to do the same thing Elizabeth did in that moment.

Prophesy the promise.

Two Women. Two Announcements. Two Very Different Responses.

In the next chapter, a young girl named Mary receives a visit from an angel with news that would change the entire course of human history. The prophecy given to her was categorically different from Elizabeth’s — this child would be the Son of God. The Messiah. The one Israel had been waiting for.

Mary’s response is worth sitting with. She asked a question — “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” — but it wasn’t a question rooted in doubt. It was a genuine, practical question from a fourteen-year-old girl trying to understand what was being asked of her. There’s a difference between the skepticism of unbelief and the curiosity of a yielded heart.

James 1 speaks directly into this moment. Verses 5 through 8 say:

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”

Notice what James calls the anticipated word when it arrives — wisdom. Not just information. Not just a promise to file away for later. Wisdom. Something to be received, trusted, and followed. Instructions for living.

The moment God speaks into your situation, the question isn’t simply do I believe this? The question becomes will I receive this as wisdom and order my life around it?

That’s where Zacharias stumbled. When the angel told him Elizabeth would conceive, he didn’t receive it as wisdom — he weighed it against his circumstances. He doubted. And James tells us exactly what that produces: a wave driven and tossed, a double-minded man unstable in all his ways. A person who holds the promise in one hand and their experience in the other, unable to move forward with either.

Mary did something different. Yes, she asked how. But her question was inquisitive, not resistant. She wasn’t weighing the promise against her limitations — she was asking God for the wisdom to understand what He was doing so she could cooperate with it fully.

And her conclusion? “Be it unto me according to your word.”

That is one of the most powerful sentences in all of Scripture. Not because it sounds spiritual. Because it is an act of complete surrender from someone who received the word of God as wisdom — as an instruction to be followed, not a possibility to be debated. She wasn’t asked to understand it fully. She was asked to receive it faithfully. And she did.

When God speaks the anticipated word over your life — the thing you have been waiting and praying and believing for — receive it as wisdom. Don’t let the wave of circumstance toss you back into double-mindedness. Order your life around what He said. That is faith. That is how the promise moves from declaration to reality.

When the Promise Visits the Promise

What happens next is one of the most beautiful encounters in the New Testament.

Mary travels to visit Elizabeth. And the moment Mary walks through the door and speaks a greeting, something happens — the baby in Elizabeth’s womb leaps. The unborn John the Baptist, already filled with the Holy Spirit, responds to the presence of the unborn Christ.

But then something even more significant happens.

Elizabeth opens her mouth and speaks the promise out loud.

This is not a small thing. Elizabeth wasn’t operating from a title or a position. But she carried something — a promise God had spoken — and in this moment she declared it over someone else. The woman who had spent decades in reproach and silence suddenly became a vessel for the word of the Lord over Mary’s life.

She spoke blessing. She spoke confirmation. She called out what Mary was carrying before Mary had said a word about it.

And then Mary spoke back.

Two women. Prophesying the promise. Edifying one another. Holding fast together to what God had spoken.

Working It Out in Community

Hebrews 10 gives us a progression in verses 22 through 24 that maps perfectly onto this story.

“Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith… let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful… and let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds.”

It begins with an invitation to draw near — not with performance, not with a carefully constructed religious exterior, but with a true heart. The kind of heart Mary carried when she said be it unto me.

Then comes the call to hold fast the confession of your hope without wavering. Don’t let go of what God spoke. Don’t revise the promise down to fit your circumstances. He who promised is faithful — which means the promise is more reliable than your current experience of it.

And then — and this is where Elizabeth comes in — let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds.

That word stimulate means to provoke, to stir up, to incite. Elizabeth didn’t just encourage Mary with kind words. She provoked something in her. She called it out. She made it harder for Mary to shrink back because someone had declared over her life what God was already doing.

That’s what the community of faith is meant to do. Not perform for one another. Prophesy the promise over one another. Stimulate one another toward love, toward faith, toward the fullness of what God has spoken.

Maybe you’ve been in a long season of reproach. Not necessarily barrenness in the literal sense — but the weight of being misunderstood. Criticized. Judged by people who formed their conclusions about you in a hard season and never updated them.

Maybe you’ve carried a promise for years that hasn’t come to pass yet. And the waiting has been heavy.

Here is what I want you to see in this story:

God is not just about to remove your reproach. He is about to birth something new through you. He is about to give you a voice — not in spite of the waiting, but because of it. The very season that felt like silence was the season He was preparing you to carry something.

Elizabeth didn’t prophesy before she waited. She prophesied after.

And when she did, it wasn’t just for herself. It was for someone else who needed to hear it.

That is the inheritance God is restoring. Not just your personal breakthrough — but a voice that can speak life into the next person who walks through your door still carrying their promise.

When the word comes — receive it as wisdom. Hold fast to it without wavering. And then prophesy the promise over the next person who needs to hear it.

You didn’t miss it. God remembered you.

Now prophesy the promise.

— Ben

If this resonated with you, share it with someone who’s in a waiting season.

There’s a statement in 2 Corinthians 5 that doesn’t get enough attention: “He has committed to us the ministry of reconciliation.”

Not to a few. Not to the professionally spiritual. To us.

But before you can carry reconciliation to others, you have to actually receive it yourself. And that’s where most people quietly get stuck.

The Love That Was Poured Out First

In John 17, Jesus prays something stunning. He asks the Father that the love with which the Father loves Him would be in us. Not a lesser version of it. Not an approximation. The same love.

That means the Father’s gaze toward Jesus — the delight, the closeness, the fullness of that love — is the same gaze He turns toward you.

Much has been given. Much has been poured out. Not because you earned it, but because that is who He is and who He has declared you to be in Christ.

The new creation isn’t a religious concept. It’s a relational reality. You are not who you were. You are not in the process of becoming acceptable. You are already loved with the same love that rests on the Son.

The question is whether you’ll live from that.

Come Into Truth About Who You Are

Jesus gives us the great commandment in two parts. Love God. Love your neighbor as yourself.

That second part is often spiritualized past its actual weight. As yourself.

He’s not asking you to perform love from a place of self-rejection. He’s inviting you into something more honest — come into truth about who you are. Accept who you are. Not hide it. Not perform around it. Embrace it and embrace who you’re becoming more and more every day as His life works through yours.

This isn’t self-focus. It’s foundation. You cannot genuinely extend love you haven’t genuinely received. You cannot fully accept others if you’re quietly in a war with yourself.

The inner work matters — not as a prerequisite to ministry, but as the ground from which ministry grows.

The Ministry of Reconciliation: I Love Them As Myself

When you know what love has been poured out toward you, something shifts. You stop trying to love others out of obligation or duty. You start loving from overflow.

The ministry of reconciliation, at its core, is this: I love them as myself. I accept them back toward the Father the same way I have been accepted — not because of what they’ve done, but because of who He is.

This isn’t tolerance. It’s not sentiment. It’s a specific spiritual posture rooted in a specific spiritual reality: that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, and He has now entrusted that same word of reconciliation to you.

You carry it not because you’re qualified, but because you’ve been reached. The one who has been reconciled is the most natural carrier of reconciliation.

The New Creation Doesn’t Hide

The new creation reality frees you from hiding. You don’t have to manage impressions. You don’t have to protect an image. You can come as you are — known, accepted, loved — and extend that same reality to the people around you.

That is the ministry. Not a program. Not a platform. A life lived from the truth of who you are in Christ, openly, toward others.

In Christ, you are a new creation. The old has passed. The new has come.

Live from there.

This morning was one of those mornings.

Taxes. A situation with my kids. The kind of real-life weight that doesn’t care what day of the week it is or what you have planned. It just sits there.

I didn’t open my Bible with a plan. I didn’t start a structured time of prayer. I just picked up my guitar and started playing a melody. Nothing intentional at first — just my hands moving, the melody evolving, and somewhere in that process a song started coming out.

I’ve taught on presence. I’ve talked about what it means to be loved by the Father the way Jesus is loved. I believe all of it. But this morning I wasn’t teaching anyone anything. I was the one who needed to come away.

And that’s the thing about God’s invitation — it doesn’t wait for you to have it together first. It meets you in the overwhelm. It finds you in the middle of the taxes and the hard conversations and the weight nobody else fully sees.

That line came out of something I genuinely needed. A place where the urgency stops. Where I’m not managing anything or performing for anyone. Just present. Just known.

That’s not escapism. That’s what we were made for.

The ministry of reconciliation I talk about — being accepted by the Father, loving others from that place — it only works if I keep returning to it myself. Not as a concept. As a daily, sometimes desperate, act of trust.

This morning the song was the prayer.

Maybe you needed to hear that today. Maybe your morning looked something like mine.

He’s still saying come away. Even now. Especially now.

There are few promises in Scripture more staggering than the one Paul gives us in 2 Corinthians 5:17: “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

Read that again slowly. Not improved. Not reformed. Not turned over a new leaf. New. A new creation.

We live in a world that constantly tells us we are the sum of our past. Our failures. Our regrets. The voice in your head that whispers “you’ll never change” wants you to believe that the worst thing you’ve ever done is the truest thing about you. But the gospel says something radically different.

When you are in Christ, God doesn’t simply patch up the old you. He makes you new from the inside out. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is at work in those who belong to Him, and that power doesn’t deal in halfway measures.

Think about what that means for the things you carry today. The shame you can’t seem to shake. The patterns you keep falling back into. The labels other people gave you that you’ve worn for so long you started to believe them. In Christ, none of those things get the final word. The old has passed away.

This isn’t positive thinking. It isn’t self-help. It’s resurrection language. It’s the announcement that Heaven has reached down into your story and rewritten the ending.

So if you’re in Christ today, hear this clearly: you are not who you used to be. You are not the worst chapter of your life. You are not the lies the enemy keeps replaying in your mind. You are a new creation, loved by the Father, sealed by the Spirit, walking in a brand-new identity purchased by the blood of Jesus.

The new has come. Live like it.